I was sipping a large frosty glass of beer in the hotel lobby,getting ready to head home after speaking about business growth fora group of entrepreneurs. That's when Chris approached me.
|“Can I ask you a question,” he said tentatively. “I'm stumpedabout what to do about this situation I'm in.”
|I encouraged him to tell me more. Here's his story:
|I was recently in a meeting with an executive for a largehospital group. I'd been referred in by a mutual connection, whichimmediately positioned me as a credible resource.
|When we met, I really hit it off with this executive. Iasked her lots of questions. She shared some confidentialinformation. And, because I'd dealt with similar issues when Iworked in the medical field, I had lots of ideas about how toaddress the challenge.
|It was a great meeting. She thanked me for my time and saidshe needed to think about what we'd talked about.
|My initial reaction was that he'd probably spilled the beans tooquickly. That's one of the most common problems I see. Buthonestly, he convinced me otherwise. They really had a solidpeer-to-peer conversation. So I asked him, “What's theproblem?”
|“That was three weeks ago and I haven't heard from her since,”he confessed. “What should I be doing?”
|Chris said that he'd called and emailed several times,mentioning that he was touching base or wanted to know herthoughts. As Chris saw the expression on my face, he justified hisfollow-up strategy, “I don't want to be too pushy.”
|How holding back holds you back
If I've heard that response once, I've heard it a thousandtimes. No one wants to be pushy. I don't want to be pushy. Butthere's a big difference between being pushy and beingprofessional.
|That's when I decided it was time to turn the tables on Chris —to get him to think “as if” he were his prospect. Here's what Isaid:
|Let's say you were the decision-maker. You'd just met with asavvy business person who truly understood your situation. You wereimpressed — and even relieved — because a solid resource hadappeared.
|Here's my big question, Chris. If you, as an executive, metthis savvy person, what would you expect him or her to donext?
|He looked at me thoughtfully. “I'd follow up—but I don'twant to be pushy. It might turn her off.”
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Dare to be a leader and show your prospect the next logicalstep. (Photo: iStock)
|“Chris,” I said. “Get over yourself. You're being a total wuss.Now tell me, what would you want this person to do? Put on yourbuyer's hat. Think. Then talk to me 'as if' you were thisperson.”
|I watched Chris struggling with the question, then saw somethingshift. A new idea was emerging; deep down he already knew theanswer. Speaking as if he were the buyer, Chris told me:
|I'd want this person to take charge. I have a gazillionthings going on here in my organization. I'm constantly jumpingfrom project to project. I don't like to take big risks hereeither. I've seen too many careers get dead-ended.
|I don't want this person coming to me with a big humongousplan to solve my problem. That would only throw me into overwhelm.What I'd really like is for the seller to suggest the logical nextstep.
|I'd want to test him out on that to make sure that I likedworking with him, that he delivered on his promises and that hiswork yielded results.
|“Exactly,” I chimed in. “And what's preventing you from takingcharge with this prospect?”
|Chris said, “I don't want to be pushy. And, I guess I want herto want to work with me.”
|How your own thinking holds you back
As I talked with Chris, I could see that his wish not to bepushy was overriding his sense of how he could help his prospect.“This is not about you,” I told him. “This is about helping apotential customer address their challenges and achieve theirobjectives.
|“You need to focus on them, not you. Don't wait for them to comebegging for your services. Help them. Show them the next steps.Now.”
|With that, I took the last sip of my beer and said my good-byes.I honestly don't know if Chris ever dared to be a leader, to showhis prospect the next logical step, to help them realize the valueof making a change and to guide them through the decision process.But if he didn't, he was missing a big opportunity.
|That's what it takes to win big deals this days.
|Want to continue reading?
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